DINNER WITH SIMON THE PHARISEE

April 1, 2001

Rev. Eugene Nelson, Jr.

The Community Church of Sebastopol

THE FIFTH SUNDAY IN LENT

Luke 7:36-50

            Preaching professor, Tom Long, shares the following story:  “One day last winter I happened to be watching the skaters on the ice rink at Rockefeller Center in New York.  The music was playing over the loudspeakers, and most of the skaters were doing the usual thing - gliding in time to the music, staying in sync with the other skaters as they traced again and again a large oval on the ice.  There was, however, one skater who was different.  The crowd went round and round, but he skated freely, first this way, then that.  He made figure eights and curly-cues; he lifted his hands up over his head, then stretched them gracefully out to his side.  He glided forward, then backward, more dancing than merely skating  He was clearly responding not to the crowd or the expected route, not even to the taped music blaring over the speakers, but to another song, another pattern, another source of direction.  He was strange, but beautiful…of all the skaters on the ice, he was the one who captivated the eyes of all who watched.”

              “Just so,” concludes Long, “Jesus listened to different music, responded to another source of direction, traced a different pattern on the world’s ice.”  Nowhere is Jesus’ different pattern, different source of direction, any clearer, any more startling, than in our text today - Luke’s account of a little dinner party at the home of Simon the Pharisee.

              At my house there is a picture of me and my daughter, Becky (we were much younger) with our backpacks and big smiles on our faces.  We were preparing to go on our first back pack trip.  It must have been fifteen years ago. We went with a group from Wellspring Renewal Center in Mendocino County.  I actually rented her a little kid’s pack just for her.  We were so excited, ready to go and away we went. 

  We were hiking to a base camp, so we had a long hike on the first day.  We went down a canyon following a creek.  About 3 or 3:30 in the afternoon, Becky just hit the wall.  She was in gymnastics and in pretty good shape, but she just could not go any further.  We had slowed down (now she hikes faster than I do!) and the others had gone ahead.  She just sat down, took off her pack and started crying.  I thought I might start crying because I wasn’t sure what we were going to do.  So we just sat there.  But after awhile (which seemed like a year) three of our fellow hikers came back.  They had reached the camp, taken off their stuff and come back to get us.  They brought fresh water, picked up Becky’s pack, picked up Becky, even took some of my stuff, and away we went.  The rest of the week was just great.  They had come and literally lifted a burden off our backs.

              Has this ever happened to you?  Has someone ever intervened in your life to lift a burden, physical , mental, or spiritual; ever had someone pick you up, dust you off and help you back on your way, helped you let go of past failures, past shortcomings, so that you can pick up your life again and make a fresh start?  This is what happened to the woman whom we meet in our text.

              She comes prepared with her jar of ointment.  She knows where Jesus is and she is coming to see him.  She knows what she wants to do.  It would seem clear that they have had some kind of previous encounter - perhaps she heard Jesus speak, heard him teach.  Clearly she has been deeply moved by what he said.  Through Christ she has experienced God’s love, God’s grace, God’s forgiveness.  Through Christ, she has been given a fresh start, been given back her life.

              Now she seeks to make some response.  And what a response it is.  As she bends down to anoint his feet, she is overcome with emotion.  She begins weeping.  It probably surprises even her since she has no towel  So she let’s down her hair to dry his feet, she kisses them, and then anoints them with the ointment. It is an extravagant act of love and caring, and a very risky one.   

  All who witness it are outraged.  What does she think she is doing?  Get her out of here!  You need to know that in the Middle East then, and probably today, a woman would only let down her hair in the privacy of her own home - only in front of her husband.  It is a very personal, a very private, a very intimate act, letting down your hair.  And so for a woman, particularly this woman - everyone knew what kind of a woman she was - to do what she did in public was unheard of.  No self-respecting male would stand for it.  She shouldn’t even touch Jesus.  She has brought shame on herself.  Worse, she has brought shame on Jesus and on the house of Simon.  Remember, this was very much an honor and shame society and you avoided shame at all costs.  So the only thing for Jesus to do was to throw her into the street, maybe even beat her.  It was the only way to deal with people like her.  Everyone would understand.  My goodness, everyone would expect nothing less.  She was way out of line.

              But, Jesus does the unexpected.  He goes against the demands of conventional wisdom.  He traces a different pattern on the world’s ice.  They all see a sinner who is behaving in a most disgraceful manner.  Jesus sees only an extravagant outpouring of love, a sacrament of thanksgiving.  They want to throw her out; he tells a parable about great forgiveness leading to great love.

              Ron Sider is a minister, author and social activist from the more evangelical side of the Christian church.  He shares this story:  “One Sunday an interracial group of young women from Teen challenge visited my inner-city church.  One beautiful young woman shared a wrenching story of incest, physical abuse, and the terrifying bondage of drugs.  Regina felt worthless.  She was deathly afraid of God because she thought God would treat her the same way that all men had.  She felt she was nothing.  After a wretched life all she wanted to do was die.  Again and again she tried to commit suicide.

              “Then she met Jesus.  In Teen Challenge’s marvelous Spirit-filled drug rehabilitation program, God began to put her life back together.  She feels clean again, hopeful again.

              Sider concludes, “What an awesome gift.  It would be silly, to be sure, to suppose that Regina’s struggles are over.  But her relationship with God has brought a new sense of dignity, worth and hope.  Her other relationships are also beginning to change.”

              Regina’s story is the story of the woman in our text.  She has experienced grace; she has experienced forgiveness.  She is changed.  In the words of the parable, she has been forgiven much and now, with the tears and hair and ointment, she seeks to love much.  Jesus knows this.  And he graciously receives her offering of love.

              But Simon can’t see it.  “If this man were a prophet, he would have known who and what kind of a woman this.”  He is a Pharisee, an upholder of the law, a defender of the law.  He is a man of respect and position in the community.  Everybody knows he is a righteous man, a decent man, a law-abiding man.  He knows it about himself.  His judgment on the woman is not cruel.  He is not the bad guy here.  He is behaving just like he is expected to behave.  But that can get you in trouble when you are skating with Jesus.

              Jesus tells a parable and then asks, “Now which of them will love him more?”  And Simon knows he has walked into a trap.  “I suppose the one for whom he cancelled the greater debt.”  The trap is sprung, “Therefore I tell you, her sins, which were many, have been forgiven; hence she has shown great love.  But the one to whom little is forgiven, loves little.”  Sound like anyone you know, Simon?  The tables are dramatically turned on Simon and on everyone in that room.  The accuser becomes the accused.

              Robert Capon once wrote, “Bookkeeping is the only punishable offense in the kingdom of heaven.  For in that happy state, the books are ignored forever, and there is only the Book of life.  And in that book, nothing stands against you.  There are no debit entries that can keep you out of the clutches of God’s love.”

              The woman knows this; Simon doesn’t.  He is so busy being a bookkeeper, keeping track of everyone else’s sins, that he fails to see his own need for forgiveness, for grace, for a fresh start.  She has accepted forgiveness and responds with great love.  He is so closed to forgiveness, to grace, that he has little love to give.  And where do you find yourself in this story?

              More often than I care to admit, I fear I am very much the bookkeeper who think of God as a bookkeeper, keeping tally of all the good things I do and all the bad things everyone else does. I live a fairly routine and harmless existence.  I try to do a few good things.  I haven’t done anything really bad, haven’t purposely hurt anyone, haven’t scandalized my family.  My life is structured, balanced, controlled, constructive.  All in all I’m a pretty good fellow and figure God knows that.

              But of course, that is precisely what Simon thought about himself.  And so in this text we hear Jesus challenging us to think of ourselves less like Simon and more like the woman; to think of ourselves as people who, in spite of all our fine bookkeeping, just might stand in need of a little grace, a little forgiveness, a little hope, some new possibilities.  Oh, I am so tightly bound to my delusions of self-sufficiency; so conveniently blind to those moments when I refuse to be who I was created to be, when I have cherished things more than relationships, when I have failed to love as I have been loved, when I have been so darned judgmental of just about everybody else.  Jesus knows this.  And so he asks, “Are you ready to let me in; to open the well-defended door of your heart, even just a little?  What happened for that woman can also happen for you.”

              A colleague shares this true story:  “I know a man who died, but not in the usual way.  He was dead for a few awful moments during his heart transplant operation.  On the operating table, as one new heart was being exchanged for his older diseased heart, he died.  When he eventually recovered and was sent home, back to family and friends, people often commented to him, ‘You’re different!’  ‘Of course I am different,’ he would tell them.  ‘For one thing, I died in that hospital.  I had to be brought back to  life.  For another thing, due to my surgery, it’s like I have been given a whole new life.’”

              Imagine that.  A whole new life.  Did you hear it?  I did.  I just heard a woman shout “Amen!”

 

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